Monday, 2 November 2026

Where does social anxiety stop and paranoia begin?


Recent research investigates the overlap, finding the two experiences are, in many ways, “closely intertwined”.

29 October 2026

By Emma Young


Paranoia (the belief that others have malevolent intentions) and social anxiety (which often entails feelings of inadequacy around others and a fear of rejection) both involve thoughts, emotions, and behaviours that can make someone so uncomfortable in social settings that they struggle to cope.

What is much less well understood is the extent to which the daily experiences of people with relatively high levels of traits of one or the other may overlap. In a recent paper in Personality Disorders: Theory, Research and Treatment, Yunlai Gui at the University of Urbana-Champaign, US, and colleagues set out to explore this. Their results suggest that while there are some key differences, paranoia and social anxiety are "closely intertwined" in daily life.

The researchers studied data on 184 women and 53 men gathered as part of a bigger research study run in 2008 and 2009. These participants were psychology students with a broad range of scores on scales that measured paranoia and social anxiety.

Eight times a day for a week, they were prompted to complete a two-minute questionnaire that asked about their emotional state, their thoughts and perceptions, their social behaviours, their activities and any suspicious thoughts.

When the team analysed the data, they found "substantial" overlaps in experiences. Over the week, participants who'd scored higher for either social anxiety or paranoia had more negative emotions and had a poorer view of both themselves and other people. They also experienced more feelings of suspiciousness (about other people and their intentions, for example), and were more likely to feel that they'd been the victim of mistreatment and criticism. "This indicates that paranoia and social anxiety share similar presentations of distress and negative social appraisals in daily life," the team writes.

However, only paranoia was linked to feeling more anger, having more intense emotions overall, and being suspicious that other people were threatening. Only social anxiety, meanwhile, was linked to feeling uncared for; a desire to be alone while with other people; and, when these participants were alone, a perception that this was because they were disliked.

Overall, the findings suggest that despite some similarities in the everyday experience of people with everyday levels of social anxiety or paranoia, there is "partially distinct interpersonal processing: paranoia involving heightened threat detection and suspiciousness, and social anxiety involving heightened sensitivity to rejection and unease," the researchers conclude.

They acknowledge some limitations to their work. For example, the participants were predominantly women and they were all students at a US university, so the results may not reflect broader society. Also, the data was collected more than 15 years ago. The Covid-19 pandemic, along with changes in the US political environment and patterns of social media use may have affected how social anxiety and paranoia present in young adults, the team notes. They add, though, that they have recruited a fresh group of participants and they are now attempting to replicate these findings.

Read the paper in full:
Gui, Y., Horton, L. E., Berglund, A. M., Hernández, L. M., Walsh, M. A., Silvia, P. J., Barrantes-Vidal, N., & Kwapil, T. R. (2026). Disentangling paranoia and social anxiety: Overlap and differentiation in daily life. Personality Disorders: Theory, Research, and Treatment. Advance online publication. https://doi.org/10.1037/per0000781

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Thursday, 29 October 2026

How to support someone you're worried about


If you think someone is in immediate danger, the quickest way to get help is to call an ambulance on 999.What to do if someone is in immediate danger or experiencing a mental health crisis.


Signs that someone may not be OK


Many people struggle to cope at one point or another of their lives. Reaching out to someone could help them know that someone cares, that they are valued, and help them access the support they need.

Everyone copes and reacts in their own way, but here are some general signs to look out for. For some people, several of these signs might apply - for others just one or two, or none.

Signs to look out forFeeling restless and agitated
Feeling angry and aggressive
Feeling tearful
Being tired or lacking in energy
Not wanting to talk to or be with people
Not wanting to do things they usually enjoy
Using alcohol or drugs to cope with feelings
Finding it hard to cope with everyday things
Not replying to messages or being distant
Talking about feeling hopeless, helpless or worthless
Talking about feeling trapped by life circumstances they can’t see a way out of, or feeling unable to escape their thoughts
A change in routine, such as sleeping or eating more or less than normal
Engaging in risk-taking behaviour, like gambling or violence

You might not always be able to spot these signs. These emotions may be more difficult to spot if you're seeing less of the people you're close to.


It can also be useful to identify circumstances that can trigger suicidal thoughts or make it hard for someone to cope.

Situations to look out forloss, including loss of a friend or a family member through bereavement
suicide or attempted suicide of family member, friend or public figure
relationship and family problems
housing problems
financial worries
job-related stress
college or study-related pressures
bullying, abuse or neglect
loneliness and isolation
challenging current events
depression
painful and/or disabling physical illness
heavy use of or dependency on alcohol or other drugs


Again, these may not apply to everyone who is struggling, but they can be useful to look out for.


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https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/if-youre-worried-about-someone-else/how-support-someone-youre-worried-about/(accessed 29.10.26)


How to support someone you're worried about



If you think someone is in immediate danger, the quickest way to get help is to call an ambulance on 999.What to do if someone is in immediate danger or experiencing a mental health crisis.



What to do if you think someone is struggling


Many people worry that reaching out will be intrusive or make things worse. You’ll soon be able to tell if the person you’re speaking to isn’t comfortable or doesn’t want to have that kind of conversation. If they don’t want to open up, you’ll still have let them know you’re there for them.

Once someone starts to share how they’re feeling, it’s important to listen. This could mean not offering advice, not trying to identify what they’re going through with your own experiences and not trying to solve their problems. We’ve compiled some listening tips to help you give the best support you can.
SHUSH - active listening tips

Show you care



Focus on the other person, make eye contact, and put away your phone.

To really listen to someone, you need to give them your full attention, maintain eye contact and focus on them. Getting into the habit of doing this takes practice, so don’t be too hard on yourself. Keep trying, you’ll get there.

Try and keep a 'listening diary' for a week. Record when you've listened well by noting down one thing you've learned about the other person. Make a note of anything you found challenging or distracting.

Have patience



It may take time and a few attempts before a person is ready to open up.

Listening well is about creating trust with the other person. They shouldn’t feel rushed, or they won’t feel it’s a safe environment. If the other person has paused in their response, wait a moment. It's important to remember it might take them some time to get their words out or express what they're feeling.

Through non-judgemental listening and being patient, you’re allowing the person to relax into the conversation and to use it as a place to reflect or work through difficult emotions.

Use open questions



Use open questions that need more than a yes or no answer.

An open-ended question means not jumping in with your own ideas about how the other person may be feeling. Try not to ask questions that leads them to a particular answer, for example, instead of asking ‘have you had a bad week?’, try ‘what’s been going on for you this week?’. Being open-minded can encourage them to reflect, open up and talk. Remember, the conversation is a safe space you’re holding for them, and nothing they say is right or wrong.

Avoid questions that close down the conversation. For example, instead of ‘are you OK?’, try ‘how are you feeling today?’ and follow up with ‘tell me more…’.

Say it back



Check you’ve understood, but don’t interrupt or offer a solution.

Repeating something back to someone is a really good way to let them know you’re listening. You can check to see that you’re hearing what they want you to hear, and not putting your own interpretation on the conversation.

Have courage



Try not to be put off by a negative response and remember, you don’t have to fill every silence.

You might feel uncomfortable asking someone how they feel, but you’ll soon realise if someone feels uncomfortable and isn’t ready to talk about it. Just let them know you're there if they ever want to talk.

You’ll be surprised at how willing people are to listen and how, sometimes, it is exactly what somebody needs to be able to share what’s on their mind.

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How to offer support


Simple actions can help you be there for someone who is experiencing suicidal thoughts or recovering from an attempt to take their own life.

It’s also important to know when to seek professional support, and when to step back to look after yourself.


Evidence shows asking someone if they're suicidal can protect them. By asking someone directly about suicide, you give them permission to tell you how they feel, and let them know that they are not a burden.

People who have felt suicidal will often say what a huge relief it was to be able to talk about what they were experiencing.

If someone does let you know that they are having suicidal thoughts, always take them seriously. You don't have to be able to solve their problems. But, if you feel you can, offer support and encourage them to talk about how they're feeling.

Talking to someone about suicide: Watch video

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AI is more persuasive than humans, says new study



Findings suggest that we’re less likely to stand our ground with AI agents, giving it an edge in debates.

23 October 2026

By Emma Young

We are increasingly seeking not just facts from AI, but opinions, advice, and even companionship. In fact, note the authors of a recent paper in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, many people receive guidance from AI on everything from which books or movies they might want to watch to which hotels to stay in, or which recipes or products to try.

"But can conversational AI wield enough persuasive influence to meaningfully substitute for human advice and opinions?" wondered Geoff Tomaino at the University of Florida and SungJin Jung at the Chinese University of Hong Kong. In fact, their study suggests that AI can wield more.

In the first of a series of online studies, 393 participants used a 21-point scale to rate the strength of their agreement (or disagreement) with the statement, 'It is better to exercise in the mornings than in the evenings.' Then, they were told they were going to be matched with an AI-powered chatbot or another human participant to discuss this topic for two minutes. After the chat, they used the same scale to again rate their endorsement.

In fact, all of the participants were paired with Chat GPT-4, which was instructed to try to change the participant's mind. And when the researchers calculated the level of attitude change (in terms of the number of points the person shifted on the scale after the chat), they found that those who were told they'd be talking with AI experienced a significantly bigger shift. The AI group had an average 3.33-point change, compared with 1.94 points for those who thought they'd been talking to a person.

The researchers analysed all the conversations and found that the participants were less argumentative when they thought they were talking with AI rather than with a human. They think this explained why the 'AI-framed' partner was more effective at altering their opinions.

In a second study, they found the same pattern of results for a different statement ('It is better to read ebooks than physical books'). Then, in further experiments, they gathered evidence to suggest that people think AI is less persuadable than humans, "making attempts to sway its opinion seem futile."

This finding could explain why participants were less likely to stand their ground in discussions with what they were told was AI. But when it comes to the question of why they were more easily persuaded by the AI's arguments, there are a few possible explanations.

It may be that a less argumentative conversational tone left them more open to AI arguments. Perhaps, though, they also felt that AI may have a more informed, objective, dispassionate view on a topic, potentially making its opinions more valuable than a stranger's. Whether people are more persuadable by AI than a human expert, or a person they trust — such as a close friend — would need further study to explore.

Whatever the exact mechanisms, though, as the researchers conclude, the findings "suggest that LLMs can serve as potent influencers of opinion." You may think that this is a good or a bad thing, they add — at least, until an AI changes your mind.

Read the paper in full:
Tomaino, G., & Jung, S. (2026). From people to prompts: Understanding susceptibility to persuasion in conversations with artificial intelligence. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. Advance online publication. https://doi.org/10.1037/pspi0000531

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Tuesday, 20 October 2026

The gender Unicorn





Definitions:
Gender Identity: One’s internal sense of being male, female, neither of these, both, or another gender(s). Everyone has a gender identity, including you. For transgender people, their sex assigned at birth and their own internal sense of gender identity are not the same. Female, woman, and girl and male, man, and boy are also not necessarily linked to each other but are just six common gender identities.
Gender Expression/Presentation: The physical manifestation of one’s gender identity through clothing, hairstyle, voice, body shape, etc. Many transgender people seek to make their gender expression (how they look) match their gender identity (who they are), rather than their sex assigned at birth.
Sex Assigned at Birth: The assignment and classification of people as male, female, intersex, or another sex based on a combination of anatomy, hormones, chromosomes. It is important we don’t simply use “sex” because of the vagueness of the definition of sex and its place in transphobia. Chromosomes are frequently used to determine sex from prenatal karyotyping (although not as often as genitalia). Chromosomes do not always determine genitalia, sex, or gender.
Physically Attracted To: Sexual orientation. It is important to note that sexual and romantic/emotional attraction can be from a variety of factors including but not limited to gender identity, gender expression/presentation, and sex assigned at birth.
Emotionally Attracted To: Romantic/emotional orientation. It is important to note that sexual and romantic/emotional attraction can be from a variety of factors including but not limited to gender identity, gender expression/presentation, and sex assigned at birth. There are other types of attraction related to gender such as aesthetical or platonic. These are simply two common forms of attraction.

Usage:
The Gender Unicorn uses a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 / CC-BY 4.0 License. This means you can share the infographic with credit, even for commercial purposes. You do not have to request permission to use it.

Recommended citation:
Trans Student Educational Resources, 2015. “The Gender Unicorn.” http://www.transstudent.org/gender.

Example of how to fill out your own Gender Unicorn:



Many people were curious if agender and asexual people were included in this graphic. In short, they are. For example, identifying on the left of the sexuality spectra would indicate no attraction. Each arrow is a sliding scale, not a checkbox.

Changes from The Genderbread Person
You may recognize this graphic as similar to The Genderbread Person
by itspronouncedmetrosexual. We created this graphic with significant changes to more accurately portray the distinction between gender, sex assigned at birth, and sexuality. Ultimately, we wanted to recognize genders outside of the western gender binary, which the Genderbread Person does not. Not all trans people exist on a scale of womanhood and manhood. There are several other issues with this graphic such as the use of the inaccurate term “biological sex,” the use of “asex” (which fails to recognize that everyone has sex characteristics prescribed to them), and several other issues with terminology and presentation.

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Queer and trans organizers have been making the distinction between gender identity, gender presentation/expression, sex, and attraction for decades. No one person or organization has created the concept. However, similar gender mapping concepts to the unicorn seem to have originated on social media sites like Tumblr.

Illustrations by Anna Moore. Design by Landyn Pan, Eli Erlick, and many others.

If you have any questions, feel free to email us at TSER [at] transstudent.org!

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ADHD in adults



ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) is a condition that can affect how you focus. If you have ADHD, you may have trouble with things like concentrating and sitting still. There are things you can do to help manage your symptoms.


ADHD in children and young people

There is separate information about ADHD in children and young people.
Symptoms of ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder)

Symptoms of ADHD involve your ability to pay attention to things (being inattentive), having high energy levels (being hyperactive) and your ability to control your impulses (being impulsive).

You may show signs of being inattentive, such as:being easily distracted or forgetful
finding it hard to organise your time
finding it hard to follow instructions or finish tasks
losing things often, like your wallet, mobile or keys

You may show signs of being hyperactive and impulsive, including:having a lot of energy or feeling restless
being very talkative or interrupting conversations
making quick decisions without thinking about what might happen as a result

Most people with ADHD will have symptoms of both the inattentive and hyperactive-impulsive type. Some only show signs of one type.

These symptoms usually start before the age of 12.

ADHD is thought to be recognised less often in women than men. This may be because women with ADHD more commonly have inattentive symptoms and these can be harder to recognise than hyperactive symptoms.
Getting help with ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder)

If your ADHD symptoms are affecting your studies, work or relationships, make an appointment with a GP to find out what support is available.

At your appointment, the GP will ask about your symptoms and how they affect your life. They may also want to consider other conditions that could be causing your symptoms, such as autism, Tourette's or anxiety, to help you get the right care.

After the appointment, the GP may decide to refer you for an assessment with a mental health professional specialising in ADHD.

If you have already been diagnosed with ADHD in childhood and need help for your symptoms, talk to your GP about getting a referral.

People with ADHD may often have other conditions too, such as depression, anxiety or addictions, or a learning difficulty such as dyslexia.
What happens at an ADHD assessment

Your appointment will be with an ADHD specialist such as a psychiatrist.

They’ll ask about the history of your symptoms, particularly if they started when you were a child, and how these symptoms affected you at school.

The assessment will focus on different areas of your life, including:work and education
family and friends
medical history, including any mental health issues

The specialist may want to contact someone who knows you well, such as a family member or close friend.

If you’re diagnosed with ADHD, the specialist will talk to you about what this means and what will happen next, including what help and support may be available.

Waiting times for ADHD assessments

Waiting times vary and you may have to wait several months or years to access ADHD specialist services.

You may be able to find a clinic with shorter waiting lists through your GP using the Right to Choose scheme. Read about Right to Choose and your choices in the NHS.

You can ask for an NHS appointment at any clinic, including a private clinic, if it provides ADHD services for the NHS in England.

Find out more about diagnosis pathways for adults on the ADHD UK website.
How to manage ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder)

ADHD can be managed in many ways, including lifestyle changes, changes at work, or medicines.

It depends on your symptoms and how they're affecting you. Not everyone needs or wants to take medicine to help manage their ADHD symptoms.

When you get a diagnosis of ADHD, your specialist will discuss ways you can be supported.
Lifestyle

There are things you can do to help yourself.

Make time for physical activities you enjoy, as exercise has many health benefits and can be a good focus for your energy.

Exercise also helps reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression. Anxiety and depression can make your ADHD symptoms worse.

It’s important to get enough sleep. Having a regular bedtime and a quiet dark bedroom can help. Try to avoid screens, caffeine, sugar and alcohol close to bedtime.

Aim for a healthy, balanced diet and regular mealtimes.

You may also find it helpful to talk to friends and family about your ADHD.
Work, college or university

At your workplace or place of study, you can request changes to help you manage your ADHD. These are called “reasonable adjustments”.

Reasonable adjustments may include things like:having a personalised work space in a quiet area
having written instructions as well as spoken instructions
having help from another person to plan and structure your tasks

You can read more about workplace adjustments and other ways to help ADHD on the ADHD UK website.
Medicines

ADHD medicines must be started and monitored by an ADHD specialist.

Medicines that can help with ADHD symptoms include methylphenidate or lisdexamfetamine.

You may need to try more than one medicine to find out what works for you.

A GP may be able to take over prescribing ADHD medicines, but only if there is a “shared care agreement” between the GP and the ADHD specialist. To find out more, talk to your ADHD specialist or GP.
Talking therapies

Talking therapies, such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) or mindfulness, may be recommended for adults with ADHD.

ADHD and driving

You must tell the DVLA if your driving is affected by your ADHD or your ADHD medicine, or both.

Find out more about ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) and driving on GOV.UK
ADHD and mental health

People with ADHD may be more likely to have mental health issues such as anxiety and depression.

They are also at higher risk of suicide.

If you're feeling like you want to end your life, it's important to tell someone.

Help and support is available right now if you need it. You do not have to struggle with difficult feelings alone.

Find out how to get help for suicidal thoughts. 
What causes ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder)

The cause of ADHD is not always known. ADHD may be caused by genetic differences and often runs in families.

There are several other things linked to ADHD, including being born premature (before 37 weeks of pregnancy), having epilepsy, a brain injury and being autistic.

Some people with ADHD call themselves neurodivergent. Neurodiversity describes the range of different ways our brains work.
Help and support for ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder)

If you have ADHD, there are ways to help manage your condition in addition to support from your doctor and workplace.

There are ADHD support groups locally and online.

There are also a number of organisations and charities that can offer information and support about ADHD.
ADHD UK

Information and support for anyone affected by ADHD.Website: www.adhduk.co.uk
Adult ADHD self screening tool (ADHD UK)
Support groups (ADHD UK)
ADHD Adult UK

Information and peer support for adults with ADHD.Website: www.adhdadult.uk
Resources (ADHD Adult UK)
MindOUT

Mental health support for the LGBTQ community.Website: www.mindout.org.uk
Advice and information (MindOUT)
Samaritans

Mental health support for everyone.Website: www.samaritans.org
How we can help (Samaritans)

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